No, I haven't met either of these guys yet.

Randy is scaring me. I am not sure if I should keep writing to him or not.

First of all - after his proposal, we started arguing like an old married couple.

Before even meeting, before even exchanging pictures, he has shown signs of jealousy. I'm also wondering about some possible control issues he may have.

He is also seeming needy and/or too eager... yet, it is hard to say how much is an acurate interpretation without having met the guy.

I don't know. In any case, my excitement has waned. At the same time, I'm still curious to find out who this guy is... I think. I'm honestly not sure right now.

Oh, and he didn't mention the kids in the first email. I did.

It *was* rather wierd how much our long term goals were in sync... however, I am already gunshy that he might hold similar traits to my ex-husband.

This is a paragraph he wrote a few days ago:

I just hoped that you'd respond to ME sometime. If you do not want to, and you'd rather focus on the misconstructions, that is fine. That's good info. I was very excited and put a lot of energy into writing to you to tell you how excited I was (the email after the proposal - did you not read it?) but you never responded. So if you don't care to respond, that is your right.

Note the way he has capitalized "ME". Note the way he acuses me of not reading his email. Cheap shot, in my opinion, aimed at making me feel bad... I think the whole paragraph was aimed at making me feel bad. Not to mention, he's taken a very negative reading on the situation.

I must admit, I did go back and respond to the email he made reference to / dropping our argument entirely. He became "nice" again after I did this... however, I wonder if not a little too nice.

He's since written the following...

Sooo, fall in love with me!

What type of person would write something like that? It doesn't seem entirely normal.

Maybe I'm reading more into it than is there... but that one line has me in a state of not wanting to write back.